A little something, made just for you

Happy Birthday, Eneya ❤️

39 looks beautiful on you.

(Best with a smile on. Sound is optional.)

Before you scroll any further…

I wanted to give you something a little different this year.

We haven't even met in person yet, and somehow you have already become someone I genuinely look forward to talking to.

So I made you something.

It's not a card you throw away. It's a little corner of the internet that only exists because you do.

Our Story

Chapter One

Every story has a beginning. Ours is still being written.

  1. 8 months ago

    We matched on Tinder.

    A swipe, a message, and a conversation that refused to end.

  2. Then…

    Somehow the conversations kept getting longer.

    Days turned into weeks, and talking to you became the best part of them.

  3. The moment I knew

    I could talk to you for over an hour and still not be tired of talking to you.

    That's when I realised this was something I really wanted to hold on to.

  4. The question

    You told me:

    "Ask me to be your girlfriend."

  5. And here we are.

    Lusaka and Kitwe, one month official, and a whole lot of story left to live.

About You

Things I've Already Learned About You

Swipe through. There's a lot I've noticed since we started talking.

  • Your ambition

    I love how seriously you take becoming the woman you want to be.

  • That laugh

    You have a laugh that makes it very difficult not to smile.

  • Your heart

    The way you care about being a good woman and being a safe space for people says a lot about the kind of heart you have.

  • Your playful side

    You're romantic, playful and somehow athletic enough to make me nervous that you will one day ask me to run a marathon with you.

  • Your love for children

    There's something beautiful about how much you love children.

  • Your growth

    You show up for yourself — the seminars, the self-work, the intention. That's rare and I notice it.

To Be Continued

Our list is still pretty short…

Tap a card. Some of them have a little secret inside.

Coming Up

Things I'm Looking Forward To

A small preview of the good stuff.

  • Finally meeting you
  • Getting those hot wings
  • Seeing you laugh in person
  • Swimming together
  • Watching movies together
  • Going away for a weekend
  • Taking our first picture together
  • Discovering all the little things about each other that you can't learn through a phone

Just You

A Little More of You ❤️

Because a phone screen has never done you justice.

Soundtrack

A little soundtrack for your day 🎶

Your birthday soundtrack

Gospel, because I know that's where your heart lives.

Playing softly while you scroll.

From Me

For You, Eneya ❤️

Eneya,

Happy birthday. I'm genuinely grateful that our paths crossed, even if it started with a swipe and a very long conversation.

Eight months ago I messed it up and we didn't get to see it all the way through, but somehow we found ourselves here. I love it here! I love how easy it is to talk to you. I love that an hour on the phone with you feels like ten minutes. I love your ambition, and how intentional you are about becoming a good woman and being a safe space for the people around you.

I know we still ironing out somethings and at times am very sure I frustrate you but I really want to put in the work, to get to a place where everything is as smooth as butter.

Can't wait for us to finally meet and to all the experiences we are yet to have.

This is only the beginning. And honestly? That's the best part.

Happy 39th, Eneya. ❤️
— Roia

I have one more thing for you…

Happy 39th Birthday, Eneya ❤️

Here's to meeting you for the first time… and somehow already having so much to look forward to.

— Your boyfriend, Roia